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A message from Robert Jazwinski, founder of JFS Wealth Advisors |
This profile was written as part of JFS Advisors' marketing packet. See the profile as it appeared in print (PDF, ~252K) |
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Since 1986 we have worked diligently to create a team
of professionals that are experts in the areas of investing, taxes, and
estate planning. I am confident that you will receive appropriate and
effective advice. However, as wealth advisors we will also help you understand
and deal with your attitudes toward money. I read a lot about the psychology
of money and I am struck by the overwhelming evidence that most of us
do not understand our own behavior. We, as humans, are wired to react emotionally. Personally,
it could be the death of a spouse (see below) or globally it could be
the disruption in international financial markets. So our best clients are people who are smart and self-reliant
but also realize that they need the discipline we offer in unsettling
times. I'd like to relate the following story to make my point.
This client has given us permission to tell her story. We've changed the
names in order to maintain her anonymity. A client's story: Judy opened her purse and pulled out a small notebook.
Each page was filled with dates and numbers. "I can tell you to the
penny how much I've spent in the last four months," she answered. She started going through each page. She had written
down every penny, yes, every penny. It wasn't just the big ticket items,
i.e., her real estate taxes. She had written down the cost of her popcorn
at the movies. Was I surprised? Yes. She continued, "I'm really
worried that I won't be able to afford the kind of lifestyle I had before
Harry (her husband) died." Now you might think that Judy was a woman who had been
shocked by the sudden death of her spouse, and that she knew nothing of
their financial situation. However it was the opposite. Her husband had been seriously ill for months. They had reviewed all of their assets. And she had majored
in economics in college. She was comfortable around numbers and investments.
I thought she would be well-prepared, (as best as anyone can be prepared)
for the death of a spouse. And yet Judy was afraid that she would run out of money.
Was she being irrational? At first I might have said yes. However, after
getting to know Judy, I realized she was reacting like many of us would.
After 38 years of marriage, Judy was alone. She didn't have Harry anymore.
And she was afraid. I wasn't sure what to do next. Initially my instinct
as a CPA was to take out a sheet of paper and a calculator and show her
that she had nothing to worry about. If we invested her assets wisely
she could live and travel as long as she desired. She would easily outlast
her assets, and be able to leave her grandchildren funds, even if she
lived into her late 90's. But her real concern was not financial independence.
She didn't think she could face the future without Harry. I could have suggested that we do it all for her, pay
her bills and send her a monthly check. However, what she really needed
(and wanted) was the self-confidence to make her own decisions. She definitely
did not need someone getting involved in the minutia of her daily life. With our support and time, she rebuilt her financial
self-confidence. I came to realize that she understood investment strategies
better then many business owners I work with, and she wanted an advisor
who took her opinions seriously. |
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